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nsracing Samba Member
Joined: November 16, 2003 Posts: 9481 Location: NOVA
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Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2014 2:16 pm Post subject: |
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Staying married and VWs have nothing to do w/ each other. YOu can stay married to her....VW or not.
By all means, take her to the shows and stuff. I take my wife to the drags and swap meets.
I completely separate the hobby and the wifey most of the time. The main thing is keep the money coming to her all the time. And you will have to finance this hobby from some other means other than your main income. Because when you start tapping into the house money she will not appreciate it.
Other than that I mentioned, have at it. Should be some fun for you as we had a long time ago in this love affair w/ this car. |
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Mr. Fickits Samba Member
Joined: August 16, 2005 Posts: 94 Location: Reno,NV
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Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2014 3:27 pm Post subject: |
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Good advice! I'm a big fan of moderation and balance with all things in life. I believe that those us that are able to have a hobby with this economy are lucky. Lots of buddies who aren't so lucky. |
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mark tucker Samba Member
Joined: April 08, 2009 Posts: 23937 Location: SHALIMAR ,FLORIDA
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Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 10:10 pm Post subject: |
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just marry a good one like I did.racecars,dirtbikes,fourwheelers,cancer,vw's boats,etc,+6 kids.and shes still right hear by my side.....must be the life insurance no couldent be that she would of knocked me off by now. she does occassionaly drive my bug to work.but she would rather be in her element.If you use your car to get away from her...then she might just need to get away from you. remember it's a fricken car!!! just a car!!! smaller than a ford biger than a yugo,but still just a car. if you are constantly working on the vw you might want to take it to somebody else so it can be fixed right.these cars are extreamly simple.and require little to no work if put togeather right.just oil change&valve adjustment/check 1 time a year,then be done and forget about it.but keep your eyes&ears open. |
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Schwing Samba Member
Joined: May 10, 2009 Posts: 2506 Location: Centreville, MD
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Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2014 9:33 am Post subject: |
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crukab wrote: |
My wife ( 29 years & still here) was Driving a Westy when I met her, she was 16......
I all ways make sure the more important stuff is done 1st--House/yard/firewood ect. any thing thats Hubby stuff to do is done 1st, then it's Vw time. She used to go w/me to VW shows when the kids were young, now it's, "Go, have fun".......... |
Agreed. Be Strategic in the time you spend on the vw's. If shit is handled around the house and she knows vw-time makes you happy then its irrelevant if she is into it or not, if she's cool. It's a bonus if she wants to hear your daily mundane updates on metric threaded bolts or bad condensors or that one year only part that listed in the classifieds today.
Another strategy is to make sure she has a VW thats hers. That was my trick. Sell parts so the household funds aren't chewed up any more than cash she wastes on stupid shit. Thats my advice.
Be yourself life is short. _________________ Shadetree Westy
http://www.thesamba.com/vw/forum/viewtopic.php?t=657279&highlight=
Single Cab - BBXXVII Long Distance Winner
https://www.thesamba.com/vw/forum/viewtopic.php?t=...mp;start=0 |
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scotth17 Samba Member
Joined: January 30, 2012 Posts: 335 Location: Bedford Texas
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Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2014 2:31 pm Post subject: |
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It really helps if you can lick your eyebrows.... |
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Mike Fisher Samba Member
Joined: January 30, 2006 Posts: 17970 Location: Eugene, OR
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Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2014 9:35 am Post subject: |
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Make sure your heater is working, so she never gets cold riding in your VW. Split the net profit with her on all parts sales. She will even help you wrap the big parts for shipping! _________________ https://imgur.com/user/FisherSquareback/posts
69 FI/AT square Daily Driver
66 sunroof,67,70,71,71,71AT,72,72AT,73 Parts
two 57 oval ragtops sold
'68 Karmann Ghia sold
Society is like stew. If you don't keep it stirred up you end up with a lot of scum on the top! - Russ_Wolfe/Edward Abbey |
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Greezy Joe Samba Member
Joined: April 12, 2010 Posts: 1534 Location: Crawfordville, Fl
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Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2014 5:33 am Post subject: |
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Never question your wife's Judgment. Look who she married ..
31 years and counting. I have lots of hobbies, VW's are right up there on top, then Harleys, guns and reloading but she has to come first..Oh yea and hide the receipts _________________ Current:74 Ghia Coupe w/ 2276
71 Ghia Vert w/ 1835
07 GMC Truck
12 Jeep Wrangler
73 Harley FLH 93 cid
89 Harley 883 Sportster (1200)
Owned before: 58, 69 Ghia Coupes, 64 Canvas Sunroof, 68, 72, 73, & 74 Bugs, 63 Single Cab, 65 Bus, 66 & 70 Camper
" Duct tape can't fix stupid, but it'll muffle the sound". |
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supersassy66bug Samba Member
Joined: April 25, 2014 Posts: 4 Location: USA
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Posted: Fri May 09, 2014 8:02 pm Post subject: |
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J Flare wrote: |
Just had our 22nd anniversary!
I hide a lot of reciepts |
I bet she hides alot of them herself I know I would.
Nancy |
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6T5 square Samba Member
Joined: September 15, 2005 Posts: 1084 Location: Dover, DE
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Posted: Sat May 10, 2014 4:56 am Post subject: |
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we've been married 30 years. My wife HATES my cars.
do the chores around the house first. Hell, every now and then do one of her chores.
Keep the garage clean and organized- in my house it's easier to leave through the garage, so when she has to step over an engine it pisses her off. I can tell when she's pissed cause she throw out the trash, hitting my showroom beetle in the meantime.
and have heat in the garage- when your having an argument is when you'll get the most work done on your car, you might as well be warm _________________ John
65 square 1500S (weezer) sold but always on my mind
60 beetle (Ned)
Quoting John Muir -- Open the rear boot. Get out the stool and sit down. Contemplate the air-cooled beauty before you. - How to Keep Your Volkswagen Alive -- Step-By-Step Procedures for the Compleat Idiot |
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Bobnotch Samba Member
Joined: July 06, 2003 Posts: 22431 Location: Kimball, Mi
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Posted: Sat May 10, 2014 8:36 am Post subject: |
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6T5 square wrote: |
and have heat in the garage- when your having an argument is when you'll get the most work done on your car, you might as well be warm |
That right there is sig line material. _________________ Bob 65 Notch S with Sunroof
71 Notch ...aka Krunchy; build pics here;
http://www.thesamba.com/vw/forum/viewtopic.php?t=249390 -been busy working
64 T-34 Ghia...aka Wolfie, under construction... http://www.thesamba.com/vw/forum/viewtopic.php?t=412120
Tram wrote: |
"Friends are God's way of apologizing for relatives." |
Tram wrote: |
People keep confusing "restored" and "restroyed". |
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crukab Samba Chef
Joined: December 13, 2002 Posts: 6116 Location: Vermont
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Posted: Sat May 10, 2014 11:10 am Post subject: |
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6T5 square wrote: |
and have heat in the garage- when your having an argument is when you'll get the most work done on your car, you might as well be warm |
Got that covered.....
_________________ Tom
My Pops:
http://www.thesamba.com/vw/forum/viewtopic.php?t=604100&highlight=
I know you will always be with me, rest in peace with no more pain. 8/13/14.....
In the yard right now:
'51 Dodge 5 window truck
'65 Bug
'66 Singlecab
'82 Rabbit Truck Diesel from CALI
'86 Doublecab W/T
'91 Vanagon carat/wolfsbrg.Tiico
'88 Dodge Ram pickup
'11 Jetta Wagon |
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Volks Wagen Samba Member
Joined: February 13, 2013 Posts: 2926 Location: Germany
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Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 1:20 pm Post subject: Re: How to be VW nut... and stay married? |
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Mr. Fickits wrote: |
Any advice from you old timers? Just married 2 days ago. 2nd time. She is into my VW habit..especially the car shows and events. Want to keep it that way. I have the basics down (i.e. we have good balance between VW and stuff she likes) |
FFS man. _________________ 1973 1303 with AB-motor - sporadic
reconstruction as time permits, 1986 ex-Bundeswehr Doka - on the road again.
I'm definitely, probably, the worlds greatest lover.
Aithníonn ciaróg ciaróg eile. |
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shortride Samba Member
Joined: October 10, 2010 Posts: 1323 Location: Oklahoma
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79SuperVert Samba Member
Joined: May 31, 2002 Posts: 9758 Location: Elizabeth, NJ & La Isla Del Encanto
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Posted: Fri May 23, 2014 12:01 pm Post subject: |
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Good stuff in this thread. Married 30 years. Have had a Beetle for 12.
Someone said, "Support each other." Yep. Whether she likes the Beetle or not. Be there for her and she will eventually see that the Beetle makes you happy and so you make her happy.
Someone else said, listen carefully. I still miss some of the trick questions but I'm getting better. Chances are, if she's asking you, it's because she's already decided what she wants to do and she's just letting you know.
And Shortride, your post really touched me. I hope you can continue to treasure your wife's memory while you move on and maybe find someone else to make happy. _________________ Central Jersey VW Society
Wanted: Art Collins VW (Savannah, Georgia) items - license plate surrounds and other items. Also ivory "AM", "FM" and "SW" buttons for a US Blaupunkt Frankfurt. |
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Da TOW'D Samba Member
Joined: December 25, 2005 Posts: 1321 Location: Bella Coma Canada
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Posted: Fri May 23, 2014 2:16 pm Post subject: |
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Mr. Fickits
I met my wife of 42 years when she brought her '55 VW panel to me to do a tune up.
She has been driving VW's and Volvos ever since.
First thing I did when I built our home was to ask her where she wanted her
new sewing room.
After that was built I was free to build my shop
She helps with the brake bleeding all the time.
remember happy wife happy life
best wishes
hank _________________ '57 type 1 Blackberry
'58 SC Ruf
'62 type 3 Notch
'92 Eurovan Willy DD
and NUTS |
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ritchiet002 Samba Member
Joined: January 27, 2003 Posts: 1676 Location: Kaneohe, HI
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Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2014 12:03 pm Post subject: |
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Go camping and let her drive!
_________________ Somewhere there is a jar with your name on it!
From now on, I'm gonna connect the dots my own way!______________________________________ |
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irvanm Samba Member
Joined: January 09, 2008 Posts: 609 Location: Lawrence, Kansas
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Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2014 11:06 am Post subject: |
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My wife and I have been together 20 plus years, the first time she walked into my house years ago she said "what's that?", I said it was a Harley Davidson and she asked why it was in the living room. I explained to her it was so I could watch tv while I worked on it. She knew what she was getting when she married me so it hasn't been a problem. |
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KTPhil Samba Member
Joined: April 06, 2006 Posts: 34021 Location: Conejo Valley, CA
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Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2014 12:49 pm Post subject: |
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79SuperVert wrote: |
Chances are, if she's asking you, it's because she's already decided what she wants to do and she's just letting you know. |
Yep. I often answer, "Why, yes of course, Alex."
Her name is not Alex.
It is for the host of Jeopardy where as you know, the answer comes in the form of a question.
Oh, and there, I fixed it for ya:
79SuperVert wrote: |
Chances are, if she's asking you, it's because she's already decided what she wants YOU to do and she's just letting you know. |
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79SuperVert Samba Member
Joined: May 31, 2002 Posts: 9758 Location: Elizabeth, NJ & La Isla Del Encanto
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Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2014 1:56 pm Post subject: |
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This is true. _________________ Central Jersey VW Society
Wanted: Art Collins VW (Savannah, Georgia) items - license plate surrounds and other items. Also ivory "AM", "FM" and "SW" buttons for a US Blaupunkt Frankfurt. |
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