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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 3:04 pm    Post subject: I need help convicing my dad to get a bug Reply with quote

Ok, I am a 15 year old guy. I've been wanting a bug for a while, as I have fallen in love with them especially the so cal style. I know they are a lot of work, but my dad and I have been working on cars forever. We were planning on looking at getting a bug, but he suddenly wants a me to drive a Jeep Wagoneer. We don't own one btw. He asked my brother one question when looking at cars, "Would a girl date you if you drove this?". The answer on the jeep is no.
He used to be an old bug guy and knows them like the back of his hand, but he doesn't want one. I need you guys' help on convincing him, so what are some good arguing points?
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 3:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Did you do something to pi$$ off your dad? A Jeep Wagoneer? Seriously?

He wants you to be single your entire youth? Come one... What dad would want to make his son drive a pile like that. Speaking as a father, I'd never do that to my son (he's 9 right now) and we're working on doing a 1973 Sports Bug restoration...

Work on him! Don't let this happen! Dad to dad, I'd have to say... SERIOUSLY??? A Wagoneer?
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 3:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Crash survival is low in a Beetle. So getting one for a 15 year old is not a good idea if you love your kid.

45 year old Beetle vs Chevy Suburban... the Cheby will win everytime.

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 3:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would argue that anything you hit like that with a large vehicle, you're dead... Substitute in a honda or golf (choose your car) it's game over anyways... That image is a hard hit.

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Crash survival is low in a Beetle. So getting one for a 15 year old is not a good idea if you love your kid.

45 year old Beetle vs Chevy Suburban... the Cheby will win everytime.

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 3:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's a bit of a balance, that's for sure.

My parents helped me buy my first air-cooled VW (a definite project car) something like a year and a half before I could legally drive. And I later drove Beetles all through high school with plenty of help to keep them on the road. But my "first car" for the year or so after I got my license? It was a beater Chevy.

What kind of vehicle did your brother get?
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 3:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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It's a bit of a balance, that's for sure.

My parents helped me buy my first air-cooled VW (a definite project car) something like a year and a half before I could legally drive. And I later drove Beetles all through high school with plenty of help to keep them on the road. But my "first car" for the year or so after I got my license? It was a beater Chevy.

What kind of vehicle did your brother get?

What year was that?

I bought my Beetle in 74. Other compact cars was the Chevy Vega and Ford Pinto. I think I made the right choice.
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 3:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I would argue that anything you hit like that with a large vehicle, you're dead... Substitute in a honda or golf (choose your car) it's game over anyways... That image is a hard hit.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 3:55 pm    Post subject: My Brother got a 92 YJ, a cool car in the south Reply with quote

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It's a bit of a balance, that's for sure.

My parents helped me buy my first air-cooled VW (a definite project car) something like a year and a half before I could legally drive. And I later drove Beetles all through high school with plenty of help to keep them on the road. But my "first car" for the year or so after I got my license? It was a beater Chevy.

What kind of vehicle did your brother get?
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 4:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

We bought a 6-year-old 1998 Nissan Frontier 100K 4-cylinder, 5-speed for the kids to drive, but they learned stick shift on my 71 VW.

They've each purchased their own used vehicles now, and returned the Frontier to us (197K now, good truck).

I've let my youngest (23 now) and her friend drive the 71 VW convertible locally now that she has way more driving experience under her belt, and will eventually be transfering the VW to her anyway, as my other one hasn't shown interest, and has less drive to repair/maintain it as well.

But I agree with others that an inexperienced driver should not be driving a bug, so much of driving is learned by experience the first few years (like being suspicious of someone not slowing down enough who is approaching on a side road).

A kid on my street collected twice big on a horrible junker Cadillac because both accidents were legally the other driver's fault and good ol' insurance money is paid to resore that section to "new" quality, but my point is that maybe an experienced driver would've anticipated such collision and maybe avoided it altogether.
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 4:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

CWAVE wrote:
I would argue that anything you hit like that with a large vehicle, you're dead... Substitute in a honda or golf (choose your car) it's game over anyways... That image is a hard hit.

Glenn wrote:
Crash survival is low in a Beetle. So getting one for a 15 year old is not a good idea if you love your kid.

45 year old Beetle vs Chevy Suburban... the Cheby will win everytime.

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I hate that photo so much. It's so graphic but at the same time, it does put some realization into the lack of safety in these old VW's. When I look at that photo, it makes me think it was simply that poor persons time. To CWAVE'S point, there are lots of new compact vehicles made today that I'm not sure the driver would have survived either.

To Glenn's point, I have boys as well and I wouldn't want them driving an older beetle as their first car either. I totaled two beetles before I was 20 and I'm lucky to be here to talk about it.
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 4:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think the key here is to convince your Dad that you are a VERY responsible driver. Crashing in an old Beetle is far, far more catastrophic than crashing in a Jeep Wagoneer. If you have any bad driving habits, you'll pay a dear price for your mistakes in an old Beetle. Tailgating, texting, driving into intersections trusting the other drivers to give you your right-of-way,driving too slow, speeding and parking in stupid places would give me pause. It's a rare teenager that can convince me that they could be trusted to drive a car with basically no safety features.
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 6:20 pm    Post subject: More to topic... Reply with quote

My driving skills aren't the issue he claims that the lack of air conditioning is his main reason. Glenn that pic is nowhere as scary as the ones that they show in ADAP in Georgia. Anyone for my side of the argument?
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 6:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Nope.........
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 6:32 pm    Post subject: Re: More to topic... Reply with quote

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My driving skills aren't the issue he claims that the lack of air conditioning is his main reason. Glenn that pic is nowhere as scary as the ones that they show in ADAP in Georgia. Anyone for my side of the argument?

I guess we all love our kids.
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 6:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Why not get a job, save your money and when you get your license, go out and buy it yourself? That way you do not have to "convince" anyone.

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 6:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Honestly you need at least a year of driving before i recommend driving a bug. I'm 20 now and got my first bug 4 years ago, right after my driver's license, and got into my fair share of trouble with my 67, including wrecking it, speeding tickets, lapsed insurance....etc. The amount of devastation that comes after spending so much time working on em only to see it flattened out is almost too much to handle. Thank god i grew up in the country driving long before 16, because if i hadn't had the experience i did, i doubt id still have my 67. It's amazing to start a project car, but it might be best to learn on another vehicle before jumping in with both feet. I sound like an old fart here, but maybe you can have the best of both worlds if you find a project within budget and can still drive another car for a bit?

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 6:48 pm    Post subject: Re: More to topic... Reply with quote

Glenn wrote:
Flyinsquirrelman wrote:
My driving skills aren't the issue he claims that the lack of air conditioning is his main reason. Glenn that pic is nowhere as scary as the ones that they show in ADAP in Georgia. Anyone for my side of the argument?

I guess we all love our kids.


I have a 63 and my 13 year old (6 ft 2 220 lbs) keeps asking me to fix it up for him so when he gets his license. One side of me would love to, the other says no way. I finally told him im going to sell it. He tells me ok how about your Harley Shocked
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 8:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

VW's are a total pain to own, and you will have to become fluent in fixing and maintaining your VW (mechanically...whether you want to or not!). Truth be told, you'd probably get a better deal on insurance and end up paying less for registration by purchasing the VW equivalent that was build in the 1990's or later (like a 4 cylinder Honda, Toyota, Ford, etc.).

Any of those vehicles would have better safety features, better heat and defrost (along with A/C which the VW doesn't have to begin with), and you will develop (hopefully good) driving habits without having to worry about ruining a classic VW. They are no longer a disposable vehicle like they were 20 (or even 10) years ago.

If the Wagoneer is given to you for free, I'd use that and save money up for the VW you want (if you're that serious about it). Having said that, I bought a '63 Bug at 12 years old, and I still have it today (20 years later). My Dad got tired of me wasting TONS of money on BMX and mountain bike parts, go kart stuff, Slot cars, R/C cars, skateboard and snowboard stuff, etc., so it wasn't terribly difficult to convince him to let me buy a VW at that age. Plus he bought his first car at 13 and both of us grew up around old cars. The Bug was the ONLY car/truck/SUV that I had for over 12 years, and all the while I drove it, I was able to save a lot of money doing my own mechanical work. Plus the car got 35+ MPG on a regular basis, which I loved during my college years when I had to commute.

Many life lessons where learned during the years I drove my Bug daily, but you have to put the time in that the older VW's require. If you aren't mechanically inclined, or you don't have anyone that is who can help you along, the VW will get expensive very quickly! Might want to think twice.
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 8:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

my first car was a 1984 dodge caravan...ugliest thing ever!! but having a junker as your first car is the way it should be. I was forced to learn the ins and outs, how everything worked, and how to fix everything as well. My personal opinion is take the Wagoneer!! Dad's willing to give it to you! Learn everything about it. It breaks down, you fix it. You may not like these answers now, but as you get older you'll understand.
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 27, 2014 8:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm everyone else. I feel that a beetle is about as safe as a motorcycle in an accident, maybe slightly safer but not much. It doesn't really come down to you being a good driver. Things happen that you can't control. I hit a 150 lb deer in a beautiful 59 ragtop when i was young. You would of sworn i hit another car head on by looking at the damage.
I drive my 63 daily and about once a week i have a close call do to some jackass not paying attention. I know that i didn't pay attention enough or have the defensive driving skill at 16 that i do now.
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