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PostPosted: Sun Jun 22, 2025 8:34 pm    Post subject: My Wife passed Reply with quote

Some of you met my Wife Jodi at various shows back in the early to mid 2010s before she was no longer able to get around without a wheelchair. This morning she quietly passed away from her battle against Huntington's disease. I would not wish this disease on my worst enemy. She tolerated my VW's and even went along for the rides until she got tired of having to hop up in the cab of the flatbeds in order to get a ride home. Her last rides were in the mango bus. I bought a side step to get her up and i would get her in the middle seat and i would taxi her around. Hold your beloved(s) close. Anyway F@ck Huntingtons.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 22, 2025 8:59 pm    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

So Sorry to hear that.
I hope you are doing Ok right now.

I've seen you post about her having Huntington's and know enough to know it was terrible but appreciate the link with more details.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 22, 2025 9:33 pm    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

Doing my best to hang in there. I knew it would come to this but was hoping it was later than sooner. Thanks for that.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 22, 2025 10:16 pm    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 22, 2025 10:41 pm    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

Sorry man.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 22, 2025 11:58 pm    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

OB, so sorry for your loss. I knew nothing about Huntington’s disease until my Mother told me years ago that she knew that she could be a carrier, but tested negative, much to her relief. I imagine that she suffered somewhat, knowing that she might have passed this along , but nothing like your lovely bride did. God bless you Sir
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2025 5:16 am    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

Thank you all
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2025 5:55 am    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

I never met you or your wife but have seen many posts from you. I am really sorry for the loss of your beloved wife and partner in many memories. Sending prayers for you in your difficult hour. She will be waiting when it’s your turn to cross over to paradise. After the care you gave her during her fight I truly believe that there is a very special place reserved for the care takers.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2025 6:14 am    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

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I never met you or your wife but have seen many posts from you. I am really sorry for the loss of your beloved wife and partner in many memories. Sending prayers for you in your difficult hour. She will be waiting when it’s your turn to cross over to paradise. After the care you gave her during her fight I truly believe that there is a very special place reserved for the care takers.


I couldn’t have said it better.

My condolences to you and the family obus.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2025 7:16 am    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

So sad, keep strong.

I never knew your wife Jodi, but I have a sister Jodi and I dated a gal named Jodi, so this hits hard close to home.

My starter wife (we were married 2.5 years, no kids) re-married at age 24 and had 3 kids, and she died at age 44 of melanoma, sad.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2025 7:25 am    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

Thank you all. VW community is the best
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2025 7:39 am    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

Tells us about her.

How did you meet?

How long married?

What was her favorite food?
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2025 8:15 am    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2025 8:16 am    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

Sorry for your loss, hang in there man. Sounds like she was a great partner.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2025 8:38 am    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

Condolencess to you and your family "obus".
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2025 9:17 am    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

Glenn wrote:
Tells us about her.

How did you meet?

Sept 1999 i first saw her at a mutual friends wedding she was alone. i was with a girl i had been dating for 2 years but we would wind up breaking up less than a month later. I asked the Friend who was the girl at the wedding with the blue dress and the beautiful smile. She was stunning! Our friend said "oh no! you 2 are complete opposites. No way would that ever work out" Well we went on a few group dates and then a few just us dates. 5 year later in 2004 we got engaged while apple picking

How long married? We got married in june of 2005. rained all morning and then the sun came up and it was hot. It was an outdoor wedding near washington crossing pa. We celebrated 20 years a few weeks ago

What was her favorite food? chicken and more chicken. sweets and more sweets

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2025 9:29 am    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

So sorry, my condolences to you and your family !!!
I remember your post on IG (things I love a lot)
and thought what a great post.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2025 10:17 am    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

Sorry for your loss, my friend
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2025 10:35 am    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

So sorry to hear this, it's got to be a terrible loss.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 23, 2025 11:38 am    Post subject: Re: My Wife passed Reply with quote

you are all too kind
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